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Do you engage in much chit chat with other parents at your child’s golf tournaments?

 

How about if you caddy for them (younger ages)? What if only watching (older kids)?

 

I have been at tournaments where some parents are super serious and even avoid eye contact, while others can’t seem to stop talking. What’s the proper balance?

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When caddying I didn't chit chat unless we had to wait on a tee box or at the bathroom. I thought it needed to be about golf and my kid, not about the caddies yapping. I did make some really good friend's caddying.

 

When watching, it really depends. I am there to watch golf the way I want to watch golf. I am going to walk. I am going to walk ahead and will put my chair in the shade. If someone wants to tag along then so be it. If not, I will put my headphones in and listen to music all day.

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My biggest encouragement to my daughters: Make friends in tournament play. You'll be seeing the same girls over and over, so get to know them.

 

I did the same. I got to know the parents as we played, talk before, during, and after rounds, etc. We have developed a cool little community of friends doing this that we know check on, travel with if we have a long distance event, and eat with after a tournament round. It has been rewarding for our girls and us doing this.

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One thing I envy other sports over golf is the socialization after practice or games.

Team sports such as basketball or baseball will always have group dinners. After golf tournaments, a lot of parents are grim-faced and bolt for their cars. I’ve tried to encourage my son to stay after tournaments and hang out with friends, and enjoy putting or chipping competitions. Dads will usually have an adult beverage and talk about all the near misses.

During the tournament, it’s a different story, as I try to be more focused on the event at hand.

 

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> @heavy_hitter said:

> When caddying I didn't chit chat unless we had to wait on a tee box or at the bathroom. I thought it needed to be about golf and my kid, not about the caddies yapping. I did make some really good friend's caddying.

>

> When watching, it really depends. I am there to watch golf the way I want to watch golf. I am going to walk. I am going to walk ahead and will put my chair in the shade. If someone wants to tag along then so be it. If not, I will put my headphones in and listen to music all day.

 

Very similar experience. I like talking with other parents but if I get the feeling that they are not interested...on with the headphones. I am a podcast nerd anyways so I am happy listening to those.

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I've gone to events to watch my nephew when he's in the area (he plays D2 now) and it's a real mix. Some folks are sociable like I am and others think they are embroiled in a life or death scenario on every hole

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> @wildcatden said:

> So far, I haven't seen the courses send the beer cart out during USKG tournaments so the mood can be kind of tense out there sometimes with all that is on the line. ;)

 

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There's definitely something more important that I should be doing.
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> @leezer99 said:

> > @wildcatden said:

> > So far, I haven't seen the courses send the beer cart out during USKG tournaments so the mood can be kind of tense out there sometimes with all that is on the line. ;)

>

> [backpack Cooler](https://www.amazon.com/Polar-Bear-Coolers-Difference-Backpack/dp/B0085CCZFI?psc=1&SubscriptionId=AKIAINYWQL7SPW7D7JCA&tag=aboutcom02tripsavvy-20&linkCode=sp1&camp=2025&creative=165953&creativeASIN=B0085CCZFI&ascsubtag=4150183%7Cgoogle.com%7C%7C%7C74%2C86%7C1%7C "Backpack Cooler")

 

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