Lost interest In the love of this game.

 Golfcrusher91 ·  
Golfcrusher91Golfcrusher91 Members  3WRX Points: 7Posts: 3 Starters
Joined:  in General Golf Talk #1

First off not trying be a Debbie downer just asking what you guys do to get out of this golf slump. Haven’t been wanting to golf or practice in 2 years. Hope y’all can help me. Thank you



  • GolfWRXGolfWRX Warning Points: 0  11 Members Posts: 11 #ad
    Joined:  ...

  • Golfcrusher91Golfcrusher91 Members  3WRX Points: 7Posts: 3 Starters
    Joined:  #3

    Thank you......Yes I do follow I think one of those. And yess def got get back to family faster. So maybe more 9 holes. I was actually just reading another thread on here that was talking about how I’m feeling.

  • Sean2Sean2 Members  32515WRX Points: 2,539Posts: 32,515 Titanium Tees
    Joined:  #4

    I started playing 15 years ago. I haven't hit a practice/play slump yet. I practice just about everyday of the week in the offseason, and during the season I play everyday, weather permitting.

    I wish I could help you, but the motivation to play/practice has to come from within.


    Treat yourself as if you were someone you are responsible for helping. Jordan Peterson

    Too much sanity may be madness and the maddest thing of all is to see life as it is, and not as it should be. Cervantes

    In golf, the human mind has much higher capabilities to screw things up than the physics has to make things better. Unknown


  • Man_O_WarMan_O_War Members  3569WRX Points: 575Posts: 3,569 Titanium Tees
    Joined:  #5

    i have been working so hard on my swing. I have created diagrams on visio, pics of every thing i have learned... played amazing golf for 2 months and then awful golf,, shanks and all... but i just saw that as a transition in learning something new. If you can't have the attitude of playing pain being an experience in itself...it's difficult to improve and have fun. Don't care if you are in a slump..don't care if you hit bad shots..so long as you are working on your fundamentals..if not..you will continue to suffer

    Ping G400 LST Oban Devotion 06/Ozik F6M2
    Cobra LTD PRO /Ozik TP6HD/Project X LZ 6.0 71g HC/ 

    Cobra LTD 3/4 Kai'li 80
    Cobra LTD 4/5 Kai'li 80
    Cobra F6 Baffler
    TM Mid_Rescue TP 22*
    Mizuno MP20 HMB 120x 4-pw
    RTX 3.0 50, 54, 60 Modus 125
    TM Spider DJ Sightline Black Tour Spider 
  • caniac6caniac6 Members  3367WRX Points: 1,008Handicap: 4Posts: 3,367 Titanium Tees
    Joined:  #6

    I hardly ever practice. I play quite a bit, and walking, and hitting a variety of shots with a specific target, is a lot better for me than beating balls.

  • ThisColmanThisColman Members  3WRX Points: 6Posts: 3 Starters
    Joined:  #7

    I sometimes get like this in the winter. The dark, cold days with nothing to look forward to really gets me down sometimes. But once spring hits, and the days get longer and warmer, I get the bug again. I also spend some time planning to play some courses in the area that I haven't yet or maybe a few that I want to play again just to remind myself that theres a reason to look forward to the golf season.

  • GolfWRXGolfWRX Warning Points: 0  11 Members Posts: 11 #ad
    Joined:  ...

  • ShallowbutDeadlyShallowbutDeadly Members  177WRX Points: 77Posts: 177 Fairways
    Joined:  #8

    If you don't enjoy it, stop. Don't force yourself to be into something you are not.

    Personally, if you are a working man and your handicap is greater than 2-3 , you should be concentrating on having funny, the camaraderie, walking outside in natural, enjoying the fresh air. Get yourself a sunday carry bag, put 8-10 clubs in it and walk and get to know people. I like to show up as a single and pair up with randoms, it's fun talk-to and meeting all kinds of different people, male and female, all age groups, from all walks of life.

  • rwc356rwc356 Chicago, IllinoisMembers  411WRX Points: 141Handicap: 12Posts: 411 Greens
    Joined:  #9

    A few years back I went through a similar period with golf. I had been playing for 40+ years and had seen the handicap steadily rise as I changed priorities to spend more family time. As I neared retirement I wasn't sure golf was going to be the favorite activity I had always planned. I stumbled across some of the "minimalist" threads on WRX and that interested me. I also was interested in some of the "back to the classic clubs" threads. Picked up a few (OK more than a few!) vintage clubs and tried to regain my youth and get away from the toaster on a stick drivers. Also joined a 9 hole golf league where many of the guys don't even bother with scorecards - just telling bad jokes and having a nice quick (< 2 hr) walk in the mornings. All in all, golf is fun again. Hope you can find a solution that works for you as well.

    Just an older guy with 7 or 8 clubs and a MacKenzie Sunday Walker bag
  • 596596 Lakeland, FLMembers  3798WRX Points: 290Posts: 3,798 Titanium Tees
    Joined:  #10

    7 years ago I rode my bike into the house and told my wife , " I quit". I didn't touch any of my 8 bikes, swim or run for the next 6 years. Didn't even think about it. I had been training and racing triathlons for 22 years. I was done. I sold all but 2 of my bikes.

    I had golf to back me up. I'm retired 6 years ago. I play golf 3 days a week. The other 4 days I ride my bike again. I started riding last year. After 6 years I found it fun again. Though I no longer ride outside. I changed and ride on a smart trainer in front of a 58" tv with virtual reality films. You can't get hit by a car in your garage!

    With those in mind, I think walking with a minimal bag may change your mind on golf. Don't force it.... You'll play again, maybe, when the time is right.

  • Mikey5eMikey5e michMembers  1277WRX Points: 283Handicap: 15Posts: 1,277 Platinum Tees
    Joined:  #11

    Your post doesn't make a lot of sense to me? You say that you don't want to golf but 'want' others to make suggestions to get you motivated again. You don't want but yet you want?

  • GolfWRXGolfWRX Warning Points: 0  11 Members Posts: 11 #ad
    Joined:  ...

  • uitar9uitar9 Members  452WRX Points: 118Handicap: LOLPosts: 452 Greens
    Joined:  #13

    I too rode for a while (got involved with the road racing scene for 15 years)-one day rode home in a freezing rain storm, couldn't feel my hands and never touched the bike again. Been golfing for 8 years now. Have no interest in picking up the bike again.

    KZG OS11 12 degree driver
    Calloway 16 5-wood
    Calloway 20.5 heavenwood
    Cobra 24.5 9-wood
    KZG 5-PW irons
    KZG 52 and 56 and cobra 60 wedges
    TM Spider mallet
  • llewol007llewol007 4KidsGolfer San Jose, CaClubWRX  3648WRX Points: 208Handicap: 4.1Posts: 3,648 ClubWRX
    Joined:  #14

    Really depends what you get out of the game. If there is no meaning to do something let alone anything, then it is probably better that you don’t. No one faults you. This game takes time and to be honest a lot of time. Longer than a typical movie, or sporting event. Just gotta take it and move on. I live the game. I compete with myself, and more often, I compete against my buddies. I love trying new clubs out hoping to find the holy grail which I thought I had found four times over, never happens. But to each their own. That’s what is great about the game, you could be having the suckiest round and drain a 40 footer double breaking birdie putt and suddenly you are hooked again.

    Tourstage 9* Graphite Design MJ
    Callaway Subzero 14* Hazardous Smoke 6.5
    Taylormade sldr 2 hybrid 19* 
    Callaway 3 iron C taper 110
    Bridgestone Tour B XCB 4-PW
    Callaway MD4 52/58  C taper 110
    Titleist Fast back
    Taylormade Tourpreffered X
  • hrossrothhrossroth Members  385WRX Points: 61Posts: 385 Greens
    Joined:  edited Feb 9, 2020 11:41am #15

    Be gentle with yourself. Tastes change, if not it wouldn’t be life. Golf is something of a lifestyle. Do what makes you happy. Played once last year, had fun. Planning on playing frequetly this year. Giving up alcohol didn’t hurt. Now I meditate.

  • tsecortsecor Loading........ Members  4728WRX Points: 498Posts: 4,728 Titanium Tees
    Joined:  #16

    identify what made you love this game and get back to that. I had a hard time at one point....it felt like the game was getting too expensive, course were overcrowded on weekends and every guy on the course thought they were tiger woods...lining up drives and putts for 5 min......it was brutal going to the course.....then i started going after work, around 6pm....walked 9 holes on courses that were not so popular and just taking in the landscapes, the wildlife and i got back to enjoying the game and the atmosphere again.....now the golf flame is burning hotter than ever......good luck

  • Sean2Sean2 Members  32515WRX Points: 2,539Posts: 32,515 Titanium Tees
    Joined:  #17

    Yes. Don't force yourself to do something you don't enjoy. Life is too short and there are plenty of activities one can engage in.


    Treat yourself as if you were someone you are responsible for helping. Jordan Peterson

    Too much sanity may be madness and the maddest thing of all is to see life as it is, and not as it should be. Cervantes

    In golf, the human mind has much higher capabilities to screw things up than the physics has to make things better. Unknown


  • GolfWRXGolfWRX Warning Points: 0  11 Members Posts: 11 #ad
    Joined:  ...

  • MOABMOAB Members  77WRX Points: 63Posts: 77 Fairways
    Joined:  #18
  • platgofplatgof platgof ClubWRX  1997WRX Points: 278Handicap: 17Posts: 1,997 ClubWRX
    Joined:  #19

    I feel the same way, but you do know it is February, so not exactly golf related weather. Just wait for warmer weather to show up. This the least amount of golf I have played in quite awhile. Limit your golf to nine holes and if it is still to much, take a break. If the guys you use to play with take the game to seriously, find others who do not. I actually cussed out my playing partner for taking the game too seriously, and he still plays with me. I just don't have time for the bull.... any more. I like to play for fun and enjoy the walk. Those who get to serious usually don't play with me again.


    Ping GMax 10.5
    Cobra F9 5 & 7 Wd
    Callaway OS 5 ,6 Hybrid
    Cobra F9 6-Pw Irons
    Ping Glide 50,54 Wedges
    SM7 58* D
    TM Pro Spyder Mid Putter
    Garmin S20

  • REJREJ Members  139WRX Points: 78Handicap: Too HighPosts: 139 Fairways
    Joined:  edited Feb 28, 2020 6:46pm #20

    I've been playing hot and cold since about 1990. When I catch the bug I'm watching golf every weekend, hitting on the range in January, and playing courses frequently. When I'm off I don't have anything to do with it. If it's not fun, then it's work. We have enough of that to go around. Don't force it.

    Post edited by REJ on
  • Maton12Maton12 SydneyMembers  46WRX Points: 35Handicap: 24Posts: 46 Bunkers
    Joined:  #21

    Try something different; driving range, lessons and start playing nine holes to ease yourself back into it

  • DivinDaveDivinDave Longview TexasMembers  605WRX Points: 125Handicap: 13.8Posts: 605 Golden Tee
    Joined:  #22

    To keep from getting bored due to repetition of the same old thing. I play a lot of choose ups and so playing with a lot of different people with different skills quite often. I dont want to be the worse player in the group and be embarrassed, so that makes me get out and practice.

    Also, my friends and I go to at least 1 either new (to us} , or seldom played course every few weeks which is a lot of fun.

    Experience - What's leaned just after you needed it most
  • GolfWRXGolfWRX Warning Points: 0  11 Members Posts: 11 #ad
    Joined:  ...

  • DavePelz4DavePelz4 A golf course in the Chicago area.ClubWRX  25366WRX Points: 2,511Handicap: 2 ManyPosts: 25,366 ClubWRX
    Joined:  #23

    @GC...is this because you're not scoring well which has caused frustration or are you playing well and just not having fun?

  • lefty1978lefty1978 Charlotte, NCMembers  621WRX Points: 375Handicap: 8.7Posts: 621 Golden Tee
    Joined:  #24

    I suddenly stopped playing golf at age 30, then picked right back up 7 years later. It happens.

    Mizuno ST190 9.5° w/ Fujikura Speeder Evolution IV 661
    Callaway GBB Epic sz 15° w/ Aldila Rogue Max 75g
    Mizuno MP-20 SEL HMB 3-4 iron w/ DG 120 S300
    Mizuno MP-20 SEL 5-PW w/ DG 120 S300
    Mizuno S18 52°/9°
    Mizuno S18 57°/11°
    Titleist Vokey SM5 62°/8° T Grind
    Scotty Cameron California Del Mar Putter
    Titleist Pro V1 golf balls
  • St JimmySt Jimmy Members  565WRX Points: 199Handicap: 8Posts: 565 Golden Tee
    Joined:  #25

    I started leaving the scorecard at home.

    Play shot to shot for the fun of it.

    You'll still know when you're playing poor, but it won't matter because there's nothing to add up at the end.

    G400 LST
    G410 LST 3 Wood
    Apex 19 3 hybrid
    CB-57 3-PW
    Y Grind 51
    Miura 55
    PM Grind 60
    Scotty Golo 3
  • dpb5031dpb5031 Jupiter, FLMembers  5836WRX Points: 1,396Posts: 5,836 Titanium Tees
    Joined:  #26

    This is an Interesting topic; the psychological component is fascinating...

    What motivates us to love, enjoy, and pursue any of the things that we become passionate about?

    USGA Index: ~1

    Ping G410 LST 9 degree - Tour AD IZ 6x
    Taylormade M2 Tour 15 Fujikura Pro TourSpec 73 
    Kasco K2K 33 - UST Axivcore 65 Tour Green 
    Callaway RazrX Tour 4h - Tour 95 shaft
    Ping i200 5-UW (2 flat) - Nippon Modus 105X
    Taylormade HiToe 54 (bent to 55 & 2 flat)
    Taylormade HiToe 64 (Bent to 62 & 2 flat)
    Palmer AP30R putter (circa 1960s)
    Taylormade TP5X Ball
  • GolfWRXGolfWRX Warning Points: 0  11 Members Posts: 11 #ad
    Joined:  ...

  • Mookieb10Mookieb10 Members  283WRX Points: 130Posts: 283 Greens
    Joined:  #28

    I started becoming a club ho. I Hardly played all summer 2018, then in 2019 I bought a new set of clubs, and then went on to buy 7 more sets of irons, driver and other stuff. I totally fell in love with that part and in turn, want to play every day etc. I know it costs a lot, but this is what did it for me.

  • FuscinatorFuscinator Members  374WRX Points: 214Posts: 374 Greens
    Joined:  #29

    You sound more frustrated than having lost interest. If you’d lost interest, you just would’ve taken up something else. You can still feel bored with something without actually losing interest. You could be bored with the way you go about it. Were I in your shoes, I’d start trying for more miracle shots. You know, go for every par5 in two, try to drive all the short par4s, cut doglegs by going over the trees, skip the ball off all the water hazards, etc.. You may not score as well, but it’s not boring, and your friends will be amused.

  • LobbyLobby Members  44WRX Points: 51Posts: 44 Bunkers
    Joined:  #30

    All you have to do is pure a driver on the 18th hole and you'll be back. Or, flush a 5 iron onto a par 3. Or how about that time when you nailed that 4 wood over the tree on the left side of the fairway on that dogleg left par 4?

  • GolfWRXGolfWRX Warning Points: 0  11 Members Posts: 11 #ad
    Joined:  ...

  • golfkrzy10golfkrzy10 Members  145WRX Points: 118Posts: 145 Fairways
    Joined:  #31

    What slide13 said. Spiritual golf 100% all the way. Just make sure you always have a cup with a little ice and bourbon and its even better IMHO!


Leave a Comment

Rich Text Editor. To edit a paragraph's style, hit tab to get to the paragraph menu. From there you will be able to pick one style. Nothing defaults to paragraph. An inline formatting menu will show up when you select text. Hit tab to get into that menu. Some elements, such as rich link embeds, images, loading indicators, and error messages may get inserted into the editor. You may navigate to these using the arrow keys inside of the editor and delete them with the delete or backspace key.